One time, I was engaged to be married. Then, I was not. I’ve shared about the path to the broken heart, the event, the aftermath, and the continual healing process.
Advice for the Broken Hearted, Part 1: 5 Things I’ll Tell You When You Ask for Post-Break-Up Advice
Looking Back: The entry from my personal journal the day after the break up.
History: His control is gone and the history, the story, is mine.
Embracing Struggle: Some days are easier than others.
Healthy Selfishness: Talk of my engagement ring & decisions I’ve made.
Hating Him: What does hate feel like?
The Facts: How the broken engagement happened.
Strength: My response to being told my strength was impressive.
Forgiveness: When I decided I could be friends with my ex.
Break Up #2: THE elegant TRUTH: Why I told him we could no longer be friends.
Grinch or Not: Feeling alone impacting my Christmas cheer.
Finding His Stuff at My Place: What happens when you come across his belongings, his gifts to you, and the memories you’ve made together.
Balancing the Positive and Negative Thoughts: There are some things I miss, and some things I celebrate.
NWD: How I celebrated my very first Non-Wedding Day
2nd NWD: The one year anniversary of the Non-Wedding Day
A Month Goes By: Healing on many levels.
Purging: Getting rid of the keepsakes from time spent together
Wrong Finger Party: by Joy Paley – How to celebrate the major break up.